CONTOH ESSAY DALAM BAHASA INGGRIS
OUTLINE
Outline Contrast Essay
The Distinguish Between Men and Women
I.
Thesis Statement:
distinguish between men and women not only in gender but in some
characteristics.
II.
Body
2.1
The
distinguish between men and women in
their habitual
a.
Preparations
b.
Hobbies
2.2
The distinguish
between men and women in their
communication
a.
Questions
b.
Opinion
or statement
2.3
The
distinguish between men and women in
their friendship
a.
Chose
friend
b.
Share
2.4
The
distinguish between men and women in
their thinking
a.
How
they thinking
2.5
The distinguish
between men and women in their memory
a.
Remembering
something
2.6
The
distinguish between men and women in
their brain connections
a.
Problem
solving
b.
Pattern
prediction involving objects
2.7
The
distinguish between men and women in
their emotions
a.
More
empathic
b.
Comprehensive
in thinking
2.8
The
distinguish between men and women in
their loves
a.
Move
on
2.9
The
distinguish between men and women in
their using language
a.
Speaking
b.
Ability
using language
2.10The distinguish between men and women in their futures
a.
Expectation
III.
Conclusion
In summary,
women and men are very different way to live.
Sometimes women are more expert than men but sometimes men are more
expert than women. Some of the differences look in habitual, communication,
friendship, thinking, emotions, memory, brain connections, loves, using
language, and thinking their futures. All of them are the evidence that women
and men are not only different in their gender but also how the way of their
life.
THE DISTINGUISH BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN
For centuries,
there are some differences between men and women in many ways. All of them make
misunderstanding between men and women to establish decision. As well as we
know that man and women are physically different but we do not know how in deep
personality in their live. Besides, we should understand all of habitual and
understand each other for being a good couple in live. They would bring into
reality if we know some characteristics or habitual. In addition some
differences like communication, friendship, thinking, memory, brain connections,
emotions, loves, using language, and futures. Those are some differences that
both men and women should understand and appreciate each other.
The first
distinguish between men and women are in their habitual. When women is going to
camping or go to the other places, they usually likes to prepare long time
before. For example the woman who wants go to vacation in Bali, they will
prepare one a month early. A month preparation for making a ton of list for
herself, worry about what she forgot, and making plan activities. But those are very different from men, men
only need preparing five minutes before departure. Men do not think what will
happened, they only prepare what they needed spontaneously. Besides that, women
and men are in their daily activities. If men will feel a shortage of something
when nothing any other games which can play, women would depress when they
under saving of clothes, shoes, and jewelry. All of them are distinguish
between men and women in their habitual.
The second
distinguish between men and women also seems in how they communicate each
other. They seem differently to communicate when women have more questions and
opinion or statement than men. As Sebastien Wiertz wrote in his website (Are We
Speaking a Different Language? Men and Women's Communication Blind Spots) that Seventy-two
percent of men Gray and Annis surveyed said women ask too many questions. Some
men felt these questions slowed down progress and delayed decision-making,
while others felt questions were a sign that a female boss was being too
controlling or critical. Depend on that statement that women are dominantly in
the communication because women’s ability in speaking. Men do not able to speak
as much as women.
Some of women’s
ability also influence to their friendship that making distinguish between men
and women’s friendship. Women’s friendship usually do not want to share with
women who are not in same level with her. Because women do not enjoy to share
in different level. Despite men’s relationship do not look for level in social
live but they would enjoy with friend who have same hobbies. Because having
same hobbies they would play together anytime. Some differences how men and
women choose friend would break relationship if they do not understand each
other what way in their friendship differences.
Next distinguish
between men and women are in how they thinking. Men are more superior how they
decide decision. This prove in article which wrote by Michael G. Conner, Psy.D,
about “Understanding the Difference between Men and Women” that Men tend to
focus on one problem at a time or a limited number of problems at a time. They
have an enhanced ability to separate themselves from problems and minimize the
complexity that may exist. Men come to understand and consider problems one
piece at a time. They take a linear or sequential perspective, and view
elements in a task as less interconnected and more independent. This statement
prove that men are excellent to decide decision. Although all of them are very
different from women how they decide decision. As Michael G. Conner, Psy.D,
wrote about “Understanding the Difference between Men and Women” that Women
tend to be intuitive global thinkers. They consider multiple sources of
information within a process that can be described as simultaneous, global in
perspective and will view elements in the task in terms of their
interconnectedness. Women come to understand and consider problems all at once.
They take a broad or "collective" perspective, and they view elements
in a task as interconnected and interdependent. Women are prone to become overwhelmed
with complexities that "exist", or may exist, and may have difficulty
separating their personal experience from problems. On this statement has been
explained that women are difficult to make decision because they decide
decision in many problems not focus on one problem. In addition women think
global in perspective. All of distinguish above in the ways that men and women
think. Those emphasize how men and women thinking different process.
Then, distinguish
between women and men is in their memory. As Ariel Niu wrote in her blog “Women
generally have better memory than men.
They have greater activity in the brain’s hippocampus, which is part of
the brain that helps store memories. Studies have shown women are generally
better at recalling words, names, faces, pictures, objects, and everyday
events.”(Gender & the Brain: Differences between Women & Men). This
statement explain that women have better memory than men at recalling words,
names, faces, pictures, objects, and everyday events. Those are very different
from men who do not concern about them. Women’s daily activities which must
remember something influence how strong their memory. Men usual ignoring daily
activities that make him to be less memory.
Although women are
excellent in their memory but they do not as excellent as men in brain
connections level. Men more superior in brain connections because men do better
on more specific spatial thinking (problem solving, and pattern prediction
involving objects and their spatial relationships). Men would understand some
women’s wish only listening that deliver to him. Despite women difficult
understand to connect what men’s speak means. Those are the evidence of the
reality live that proof men are better than women in brain connections.
Furthermore, men
and women having differentiate in emotions. Ariel Niu wrote on her blog about “Gender
& the Brain: Differences between Women & Men” that Women typically have
a larger limbic system than men, which makes them more in touch and expressive
with their emotions. Women are usually
more empathic and comprehensive in thinking, while men focus on exact issues
and disregard impertinent information.
Men have a difficult time understanding emotions not explicitly
verbalized but can think more logically, while women have a more wholesome view
of thinking & understanding but their emotions can sometimes influence
decisions. Depend on this statement which is explain women have a larger limbic
system than men. In conclude, women have better in emotions than men.
Women and men
distinguish also seem in loves. Many women difficult to move on with old
boyfriend but men would be easy to get another girl because there are so many
girls that wait to be his girlfriend. Women would depress when her girlfriend
break her but it would be different from men that men think broken heart with
his girlfriend it is just experienced. Those reasons are differences between
men and women in loves.
Men and women also having differentiate in using language. In using
language woman are mare able than men because men speak only if needed or talk less.
Men do not speak too much but the important is “do more”. So men actually not
to be able too much speak. As Ariel Niu wrote in her blog about “Gender &
the Brain: Differences between Women & Men” that Women are more attuned to
words and sounds and are normally better at learning languages. This is also why men tend to have a harder
time expressing emotions verbally. Because women are better at learning
language so that women are more competent using language. Reasons above support that women are better
than men in using language.
Look for futures
is the expectation all of people but the expectation of women and men are
differently. As Vivas wrote on her website about “What is the difference
between women and men?” that women worries about future until she gets a
husband but men never worries about future until she husband. Besides that, men
worries about success in the future. Vivas wrote “A successful man is one who
makes more money than his wife spend but a successful women is one who can find
such a man”. Those statement explain that women are worries about future in
gets husband but men worries about future in get successful (makes more money
than wife spent).
In summary, women
and men are very different way to live.
Sometimes women are more expert than men but sometimes men are more
expert than women. Some of the differences look in habitual, communication, friendship,
thinking, emotions, memory, brain connections, loves, using language, and
thinking their futures. All of them are the evidence that women and men are not
only different in their gender but also how the way of their life.
REFERENCES
Evans, Lisa. (2014). Are We Speaking A Different Language? Men And Women's Communication
Blind Spots. http://www.fastcompany.com/3031631/strong-female-lead/are-we-speaking-a-different-language-men-and-womens-communication-blind-s.
Drobnick, Richard. (2014). 5 Ways Men & Women Communicate Differently. http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2012/04/01/6-ways-men-and-women-communicate-differently/
Niu, Ariel. (2014) Gender & the Brain: Differences between Women & Men http://www.fitbrains.com/blog/women-men-brains/
G. Conner, Michael. 2000. Understanding The Difference Between Men And Women.
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